A Love for a Four Legged Baby That Fills Our Hearts
- Sheila Buffy

- Oct 27, 2025
- 5 min read

Angels watch over Smokey, my Shih Tzu, but our hearts hold him close every day.
Smokey is not a dog. He is our four legged baby. To us he is human. His eyes talk to us without words. His little paws carry love that goes straight into our hearts. He follows us everywhere and he makes our home complete.
He has been part of our lives for six beautiful years. Wherever we go, he goes. Whatever we do, he is part of it. He is not just a pet. He is our baby. He is our life.
The Thought That Breaks Our Hearts
We cannot handle losing him. Just the thought makes us cry. And I know many of you feel the same about your own four legged babies. They are not pets. They are family. They are children in fur.
When the day comes to say goodbye, it will be the hardest heartbreak. The silence will feel heavy. The empty space where they used to be will feel endless. It is not only the paws we will miss. It is the warmth, the comfort, and the love that God placed in our lives through him every day.
Why It Hurts So Much
People who never had a four legged baby may not understand. They might say it was just a dog, but we know the truth. Our babies are part of us. They are family.
They greet us when we wake up. They wait at the door when we come home. They cuddle close at night and watch us with eyes full of trust. They are woven into every part of our days.
When they are gone, the house feels empty. The bed feels cold. The heart feels broken. The reason it hurts so much is because the love was so deep.
Only God Truly Knows
I will never fully know the essence of how I will feel if that day ever comes. It has not happened to us yet and I pray it will not for a long time. But I already know it would break me in ways I cannot imagine.
Only God truly knows how deep this love runs and how much it would hurt to lose him. Because Smokey is not just part of our life. He is our life. God gave him to us for a reason. To love, to protect, and to remind us that pure love still exists.
More Than Just a Dog
People who have never loved a four legged baby may not understand what they mean to us. These precious companions are gifts from God, sent to show us love in its purest form.
For those of us who cannot have children or cannot afford adoption, God blesses us in another way. He sends us angels with fur.
Smokey is that blessing for me and my husband. He fills a space in our hearts that nothing else ever could. He makes every day brighter and every moment worth living.
Ways People Find Comfort
There is no quick way to heal. Grief has no time limit. Some days you may feel peace. Some days you may cry as if the loss happened yesterday. This is normal.
Here are gentle ways people find comfort:
Visit a place that brings peace.
In Vermont there is a place called Dog Mountain with the Dog Chapel. The walls are filled with photos and notes left for four legged babies who have passed. It reminds us that love is shared and we are never alone.
Keep reminders close.
Place a favorite photo on a shelf, hold on to a toy or blanket, or keep something small that belonged to them. These simple things bring comfort and help us feel their love is still near.
Write from the heart.
Many people find peace in writing letters to their four legged babies, telling them how much they are missed and how thankful they are for every moment together.
Share their story.
Speak their name, show their photo, and tell others about them. Each time we share, love grows stronger.
What Smokey Teaches Us
Smokey is still here with us today. He makes us laugh. He comforts us when we are sad. He cuddles close like a child who never wants to let go.
He reminds us that every moment is a gift. One day moments become memories, and that is why we must treasure them while we can.
We cannot imagine life without him. We cannot handle losing him. But he teaches us that grief comes from love, and love never ends. It changes form, but it never disappears.
Honoring and Remembering Your Four Legged Baby
When the time comes, there are many ways to honor them.
Keep a memory box with toys, photos, or a blanket.
Plant a flower or tree in their honor.
Create a scrapbook or photo album.
Share their story where others understand.
These acts bring peace and remind us that their love is still with us.
You Are Not Alone
One of the hardest parts of losing a four legged baby is feeling like nobody understands. But you are not alone. Many people have walked this road. They have cried the same tears and felt the same silence.
Your grief is not weakness. It is proof of your love. And that love will stay with you forever.
What Smokey Means to Us
Smokey has been with us through everything. He travels with us, watches over us, and brings light into every room. His little face, his wagging tail, his tiny paws, all of it is love made visible.
To us he is human. He feels, he understands, and he loves with his whole heart. He is the reason our home feels warm, the reason we smile after a long day, the reason life feels whole.
Closing Thoughts on the Love for a Four Legged Baby
Losing a four legged baby is a heartbreak like no other. It takes away their body but never their love. Their paw prints remain on our hearts forever.
Smokey is still with us. He is our four legged baby, our joy, our little human with fur. We cannot handle losing him, but we know one day that pain will come. Until then, we will love him with everything we have, celebrate him, and share his story so others know they are not alone.
A Final Thought on the Bond With Our Four Legged Baby
If your four legged baby follows you everywhere, know that it is their way of loving you with every step. Smokey has taught us that loyalty is not measured in words but in presence. His little footsteps remind us that we are never truly alone. In every moment he gives us comfort, courage, and healing.
Read more heartfelt stories in my books Smokey The Little Dog That Saved Us and visit Smokey’s Corner to support and share hope with others who love their four legged babies.


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